Old Intro

I spend quite a bit of time on my computer when I should be working so I figured this is at least semi productive right?I have 2 good friends from my past who keep blogs and I enjoy logging on and reading what is up with them so I figured this would serve as an update on my life to those who may care.I am originally from Southern California but I now live in Upstate New York. I am a Spanish professor at a local community college, a job that I thoroughly enjoy. At times I cannot believe that I actually get paid to do what I do. I teach which I love, I get to meet new people, I get time to do things that I enjoy, people think I must know a lot, so yeah it's a sweet deal.I am currently going through a divorce, after 7+ years of marriage and 3 kids my wife up and tells me one day that she is a lesbian--yup she only married me hoping that being with a man would help her get "over it" well it didn't so now I found myself back into this wonderful and confusing thing that is known as dating. At times I feel like Ross from "Friends"--of course this ain't as funny. Actually even though I still hurt my ex and I are good friends. We agreed that we would do what is best for the kids and set our feelings aside. Turns out we are actually pretty good friends (we sometimes even check out girls together) and I find that aside from the kids, we still have a lot to talk about and share with each other, which has been nice. As a matter of fact I picked out her outfit for her date last night :)Probably the best things that I have from all this are my children. I have three amazing kids; my daughter Rachel turns 7 this week, My son Roman is 5, and the baby Tommy will be 3 at the end of January.